Don’t walk away — run! I would diagnose this guy is a narcissistic quack. While seeking help during a very difficult and emotionally painful situation involving a long-term marriage, his advice to each spouse was to find casual hookups on . He also bad-mouthed each spouse to the other when our mutual goal was to reconcile. Both of us subsequently found much more qualified and helpful therapists who quickly assessed the critical issue that Martin completely missed, and who helped us through the situation much more effectively. Martin seemingly just likes to hear himself tell stories at an exorbitant hourly rate, and he only succeeded in making our situation worse and more painful. Choose a therapist who subscribes to Dr. Sue Johnson’s teachings. You will be glad you did, whatever your objective.